Playing Favorites.

In my last couple of posts, I talked about working my way toward a minimal wardrobe. I doubt I’ll get to, or even enjoy, a 10-piece wardrobe, but something less than the 200+ pieces I used to own would be great! For fall/winter, my wardrobe count was around 80 or 90 pieces. My spring/summer wardrobe is already smaller than that, but I still purchased way more than I need. I used to just buy and buy, and somewhat like the things I bought. Now I only buy if it’s love, which cuts down on the flotsam and jetsam.

However, when I started buying for an all-new spring/summer wardrobe a couple of months ago, I didn’t really have an item limit in mind. I only went by the “love” rule. So, I ended up with too much. Everything fits great and I do like it all…I just have too many pieces! I want a smaller wardrobe so that it’s easier to get dressed in the morning. I want a smaller wardrobe so that I can finally conquer this gluttony for body coverings.

I started playing favorites. For two weeks, I’ve been wearing only my top choices and letting items naturally filter to the bottom of the list. I’ve been taking photos of my daily outfits so that I have tangible evidence that I’m actually wearing what I think are my favorites. Yesterday, I made a list off the top of my head and went through my photos. I counted about 30 items — tees, nicer tops, skirts, pants, crops, shorts, cardigans, and jackets.

I also made a list of items that I know I like, but want to keep track of whether I wear them with any regularity. My smaller wardrobe will not have a place for items that I only wear once a month or less, aside from dressier pieces. Three pieces in particular stuck out for me. A flowy bright orange button-up blouse, a patterned shell in one of my favorite color combinations, and a maxi skirt. I wore that blouse a lot last summer and fall, but am not reaching for it now. Why? I’m going to make an effort to think about wearing it, but if a tee or other top wins out, it’s moving aside. As for the shell, when I want to wear that style of top I have at least one other shell that I like more, so I’ve been wearing that one instead. The maxi skirt I have yet to wear at all, yet I thought I’d wear it all the time. Maybe I’ve just forgotten about it?

I’ve also had a few pieces surprise me about how often I wear them. I thought I was done with leggings after the long, frigid winter, but there are times that I still want to wear them with sandals. I’d also put aside a couple of baggy tees because the wide open neckline isn’t my favorite, but this week I pulled them back into production because I love looser tees these days.

Finally, I’ve discovered a few holes that I’d like to fill. In thinking about them, I realized they are not urgent and I won’t seek them out. They’ll remain on my shopping list and if I come across exactly the items that fill those needs, I’ll buy them.

For now, I’m in my second week of not buying clothing for myself. I really wanted to go shopping during my free time this morning, but the desire to make it to two whole weeks without shopping won out! So here I am, writing instead, and analyzing my experiment with playing favorites. I think it’s going very well and I’m enjoying my clothes!

 

Little Victories.

Today, I had an appointment right in the middle of Shopping Central. I often schedule time for shopping before or after this appointment, and was trying to resist the temptation all week, but I really thought I was going to cave in. I’m so relieved to report that I did not shop! I drove straight to my appointment and drove straight home afterward. (It helps that it’s downpouring out there. I really dislike shopping in bad weather.)

Also, when I was choosing my outfit for the day, I picked a loose, drapey tee that became an instant favorite. I wear it all the time! When I looked in the mirror this morning, my first thought was that I should try to find another one just like it. Maybe two. Would two more be enough? Yes, I’d have three then. Good.

What??

NOT good! That defeats the whole idea of a minimal wardrobe. No, if I want to wear a drapey tee, this shirt is what I need to wear. That’s how small wardrobes work, and that’s how I want my style mind to start working.

It’s going to be hard to undo all those years of clothing gluttony!